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…it seems like you’re just trying to convert people to your religion. Like they’re notches on some sort of spiritual belt. But they’re not. They’re people, they’re people that God loves. They’re people that Jesus wants us to love. They aren’t statistics, they aren’t numbers, they aren’t possible conversions. I mean, if I’m loving somebody with an agenda, then it really isn’t love, is it?

Before I continue, I’m well aware of the arguments I may be starting right now. Although I completely agree with the above quote, many Christians will disagree with it. They will tell me that unless I’m preaching hell/brimstone to a person then I’m not really loving them. They’d say that I’m allowing them to remain inflicted with a terminal disease and not offering them the cure. They’d say that it’s not true love if I’m allowing a person to remain “sick” and eventually die. They would be angry with me. “You have the antidote and you’re keeping it all to yourself.”

I disagree. I believe that it’s not my job to convert people. Anybody that spends 10 minutes talking to me or reading my posts will know where I stand/what I believe. I truly believe that this site would be failing if all I did was tell people that they’re going to hell - turn or burn! Get saved or microwave! Dumb.

I’m all about loving people, serving them, helping them and forming relationships with them. Typically, as a result of these actions, people will see the Jesus in me. That is my form of evangelism. That is how I contribute to society. Christians, if you think that’s not good enough…if you think I’m not doing my job as a Christ follower, that’s fine. I’ll answer to God one day just as you will.

In the quote above, the last sentence reads:

…if I’m loving somebody with an agenda, then it really isn’t love, is it?

So let’s hear it. Is it possible to love somebody if you’re trying to convert them? Is it possible to love somebody if you have a hidden agenda?

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